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SaVi Story
By Jana Lee Aspin
sav.vy. v. understand; comprehend
"SaVi" stands for Sisters Against Violence Initiative.
The warm flame from a single candle on the stage at the Kiva Auditorium
at the Convention Center will represent the struggle of a girl raped
by a gang of boys with whom she attended high school. Hayda's Light
will burn brightly at the Third Annual Albuquerque Rape Crisis Center's
SaVi Fair. The candle will symbolize the nearly 30-year struggle
of the girl-turned-woman to come to terms with the attack and the
mental and emotional grip it held on her life.
Use the brightest ink to mark Thursday, September 23 at 7:30 p.m. on your calendar, because that's the date that one organization is putting on a great show to benefit a very serious issue in our community. Your ticket brings an evening of entertaining, consciousness-raising fun featuring the voices of Linda Cotton, Hillary Smith, Cathryn McGill, P
"The stories are about the voictories of rape victims dealing with their past so they can live successfully without memeories torturing their every-day existence," say Cathryn McGill, development director for the Rape Crisis Center (ARCC)
McGill, who has a singing voice and style that puts her in demand for performances in and around Albuquerque, came up with the idea after she started working at the center. She wanted to showcase talented performing artists who live in New Mexico during a one-night performance to raise money for the organization.
"I believe we have some fine talent in New Mexico. All the individuals
who perform in SaVi Fair are headliners," said McGill. "We don't
get to work together since we're all doing our own performances.
So when we come together for this there's a great synergy to create
something."
McGill plans to raise at least $40,000 this year from SaVi Fair.
"Twenty dollars a ticket is a bargain for the kind of entertainment
we're providing. Plus, it helps us support those who have been or
will be affected by sexual violence," McGill said. Money raised
will suppport the center's 24-hour crisis line, no-cost counseling,
and community education services. The crisis line runs 24 hours
a day year-round and is staffed by volunteers and center employees.
The ARCC offers an age-appropriate kindergarten throught 12th grade
violence prevention deucation program in schools. In 2003 they spoke
to more than 10,000 students.
The Rape Crisis Center was founded in 1973 by a group of women
who had the courage and vision to create a place where sexual assault
survivors - men, women, and children - could seek help and support.
Their dream was to help the victims find the courage to speak out
against violence in our community and to create a world without
sexual violence.
New Mexico ranks third in the nation in the rates of reported forcible
sexual assult. Forty percent of the victims that the center see
are between the ages of 13 and 19. The fastest-growing number of
offender arrests is boys under the age of 20. "We need to work together
so that our children will have a violence-free future," said McGill.
Last year the ARCC answered more than 1400 calls and responded
to 600 requests for an advocate to accompany a victim during a forensic
exam or a police interview. The center provided nearly 3600 hours
of counseling to survivors who are working on recovery. "Many of
our clients are uninsured or underinsured, and could not recieve
professional treatment without our services," McGill said.
And there are other ways to help. The ARCC has formed the SaVi
Business Group. The center is seeking businesswomen to make commitments
of at least $250 each to become members. The $250 is the equivalent
of the cost of three counseling sessions, or two violence prevention
classroom presentations, or one day's operation of the 24-hour hotline.
Please join us as we face the challenge of creating a world without
sexual violence. SaVi Fair tickets can be purchased at Ticket Master
outlets and online at ticketmaster.com
or by calling ARCC at (505)266-7711
Jana Lee Aspin is a former broaddcast
reporter and public relations professional with a degree in journalism.
She now does real estate investing as a Realtor(r), fused glass
artwork, and is "Mom" to her 12-year-old son. She volunteers fer
public relations skills for SAVI Fair.
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THE INNER YOU
VISION: WHAT DO YOU SEE?
by Marilyn J. Walker, Ph.D.
Eyesight is precious, enabling us to see whats going on around
us. Through words, photographs, and new technologies we can see
under oceans, into outer space, and inside our bodies.
Understanding the world and ourselves is a fascinating but slow
process, never fully realized, though we develop knowledge, skills,
and cautions to help us along the way. We also see troubling things
such as violence and trash along the highway.
Vision is much more than eyesight. Unique among Gods creatures,
we can imagine possibilities though limited by internal filters
of habit or belief. Imagine a child splashing in puddles, kicking
rainwater into the air. Some will see only muddy feet and a dirty
face. Others will see the wonder and exuberance of discovery.
What we see is influenced by what we want, fear, love, or despise.
The abducted child may have seen only a friendly adult offering
candy, a vision that soon drastically changes. A vision of being
included or excluded, owning or tasting this or that, tempts us.
Marketers successfully capitalize on our imagination, seducing millions
to become overwhelmed with credit card debt. We didnt imagine
bankruptcy, or creditors hounding us.
Achievements of inventors, artists, engineers and benevolent organizations
all begin with a vision. Wars are fought over imagined conquest,
whether based on greed, hatred, or a vision of peaceful equality
among all. There is, however, a long road between a vision and its
successful culmination. Overcoming obstacles of physical limitation
and attitude require patience and being satisfied with small steps.
It helps to periodically assess our visions. Hand-wringing isnt
a good outcome for a good vision. You can empower yourself by focusing
on something worthy, then assessing what aspect is within your ability
to influence.
Choose one of your current visions for yourself, your family, the
nation or the world to determine whether or not you should tweak
it a bit.
- Unworthy motivations: revenge, resentment, hatred, anger, greed,
or envy.
- Worthy: improvement of relationships or environment (neighborhood,
home, workplace).
- Maybe worthy maybe not: curiosity, ambition, loyalty,
and appetites.
We may not be able to buy a new house, but we can clean up the
one we have. We cant order media moguls to curtail the violence
and shallow fare programmed for kids, but we can protest through
speaking out, phone calls, boycotts, e-mail or our legislators.
We cant control a toxic workplace, but we can spread a little
kindness, and avoid malicious gossip.
What do you see? It depends on what you want to see. Today, I choose
to shut out the violence in the Middle East. I will avoid news,
pull some weeds, read a book, clean out a drawer, call a friend,
and play with a grandchild. Tomorrow I may try to better inform
myself of the truth behind political spin so as to vote for whomever
or whatever I deem best. To pursue any vision, we have to renew
our spirits on a regular basis, so we can then use our energy to
try to make things better. Imagine that.
Dr. Walker is Professor Emeritus of Psychology,
University of the Incarnate Word, San Antonio, Texas, and spent
many years as a management consultant and clinical psychologist.
She is now a writer living in Albuquerque.
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Great
Women Great Scientists
The Women of Sandia National Laboratories
by Sabra Brown Steinsiek
Photos by Kyle Zimmerman
Chemists, and Computers, and Physics. Oh,
my! Throw in four husbands, eight children, one dog, three cats,
and a fish, and you have these four super-achieving women among
the many female scientists of Sandia National Laboratories
Christine
Coverdale:
Materials Radiation Science
B.S. University of Puget Sound
M.S., Ph.D. University of California, Davis
Christine Coverdale comes from a family of chemists, so it was
not a surprise when science became her focus. "In high school and
as an undergraduate, physics was the only thing I found challenging,"
she said. "The rest is history."
That history includes a stint in private industry before coming
to Sandia Labs in 1997 where she works on developing x-ray sources,
studying radiation effects, and helping to develop accurate computer
models that predict the effects of radiation.
While she found the scope in private industry to be limiting, she
praises Sandia for their "wealth of opportunities." Sandia has been
willing to let her choose, within the projects needed, those she
would enjoy. She has been a team participant, team leader, and project
manager over the years, as well as a mentor for newer hires.
She feels that within Sandia she has many opportunities. "In the
general world of jobs, I would say there are only a handful of places
where I could find a position doing anything similar to what I do
here," she says. Married to Chris Mirate, a Sandia engineer, she
faces the "two-body problem" of finding a place for both of them
should they decide to relocate.
Relocation, however, is not in her plans. Sandia has accommodated
her needs as a parent to Audra, Adam, and Adrien, with flexible
work hours as well as occasional freedom to work from home.
Additionally, Sandia encourages professional activities beyond
work. Christine has served as a member of the Executive Committee
for the IEEE Plasma Science and Applications committee, and guest
editor of the Journal of Radiation Effects, and she has organized
the 4th International Workshop on the Physics of Wire Arrays. She
also finds time to work as a volunteer for the Campfire Rocket Reader
Program at Wherry Elementary in Albuquerque. "I am a firm believer,"
she says, "of helping kids who, with just a little more encouragement,
could achieve so much more."
Her leisure time is spent with her family, reading, playing volleyball,
and making stained glass pieces.
Her advice to women considering the scientific field? "I think
all women who choose to enter technical arenas need to be prepared
to cope with stereotypes and some folks who won't always appreciate
working with or for women," she says. "There are still some areas
that are almost exclusively male, and it can be particularly tough
to be accepted."
Julia
Hsu:
Surface and Interface Science
B.S.E. Princeton
M.A., P.h.D. Standford
Julia Hsu liked physics just a little more than chemistry when
she was in middle school. Those interests led to her work in applied
sciences at the intersection between pure science and true engineering.
She says, "I think of myself as a materials physicist, working in
truly interdisciplinary fields to uncover the fascinating properties
of materials," says Julia.
Her road to Sandia led from her birth in Taiwan to U.S. immigration
at age of 16, then through the University of Virginia Physics Department,
where she was the only female member (out of 35) of the department
faculty, earning her tenure a year early. She did scientific research
for Bell Laboratories, Lucent Technologies before she and her husband,
Mark Lee, were hired at Sandia. They have one son, Duncan.
Her freshman honors physics class had only four women in a class
of 52. She was the only one to obtain a Ph.D. in physics. In her
incoming graduate class of 16, only four were women, and only two
made it to Ph.D.
She finds the job opportunities in basic scientific research are
becoming more limited with choices mainly in academia or government
labs. However, with a background in basic research, she says, there
are a variety of different careers in management, manufacturing,
or medical research.
Susan
L Rempe:
Computational Biology
B.A. Columbia University
B.A. University of Montana
MS, Ph.D. University of Washington
As an avid reader and storyteller, Susan Rempe thought she would
grow up to be a writer, but the call of science proved stronger.
Her first solo research project was in her senior year of high school,
when she checked out Montana's Flathead Lake to discover if it was
polluted or pristine. "I enjoyed every aspect of the project, from
the planning stage right through to writing it all up. I think this
early positive experience with real scientific research propelled
me to where I am now."
Susan works as a theoretical chemist in Sandia's Computational
Biology Department. "I pursue research in biology because I'm intrigued
by how biological structures achieve their myriad functions." "Success
is a challenge because it requires making original contributions
to the state of knowledge in the field, publishing in peer-reviewed
journals, and attracting new funding", she says.
Susan was in the first coeducational class at Columbia University
in New York City. Coming from a well-integrated public high school,
she didn't find it remarkable that there would be equal number of
men and women in her class. During graduate school she saw the same
almost equal numbers begin but far fewer women finished. Many who
dropped out were pregnant with their first child. Susan was pregnant
with her second, and later, twins. "my advisor bent over backwards
to make sure motherhood wouldn't prevent me from pursuing my educational
goals. My husband and mother also gave me the support I needed to
succeed," she says.
Susan and her husband, Gary, enjoy time with their children Caroline,
Philip, and twins Greg and Clara. As a family, they participate
in the Kirtland Aquatic Club, where Susan is a master swimmer recently
winning four events at the New Mexico Games Meet. "I believe in
pursuing physical activity for the whole family, both organized
and outdoor sports. We make time to introduce our friends and the
children's friends to wilderness activities like hiking, climbing,
rafting, and kayaking," she says.
Susan, a concert pianist who has soloed with the Albuquerque Symphony,
believes in "the power of music to uplift the spirit," and she strives
to give "the wonder of music" to her audiences.
She also supports her alma mater, Columbia University, as a recruiter,
fund raiser, and member of the alumni committee.
On the question of being a role model. Susan responded, "Young
women will seek me out to discuss how it is possible to have a happy
and fulfilling family life while pursing a challenging career in
scientific research. The message I try to impart is that it's rewarding
to live deliberately and to pursue your dreams in every aspect of
life, but that you have to be willing to forgive yourself for the
mistakes you're bound to make along the way."
Lauren
Shea Rohwer:
Advanced Microsystems Packaging
BS University of Massachusetts/Amherst
MS Virginia Tech
Ph.D. University of California/
San Diego
An interest in the structure and characterization of materials
led Lauren Rohwer to a career in Materials Science. She researches
how they can be used in applications like sensors or flat-panel
displays.
A native of Connecticut, Lauren worked in industry doing fiber
optic research for a year between her BS and MS degrees. Studying
at three different schools, Lauren saw no problems in how women
were accepted into her programs.
She says that materials scientists have many professional opportunities
at national laboratories, universities, and industry. Some of these
jobs focus on fundamental research, while others are more applied,
with an emphasis on developing a new product or device. "Sandia,"
she continues, "has a wide range of research activities and laboratory
capabilities."
Lauren and her husband, Judd, enjoy the outdoors. Along with gardening,
they ski, mountain bike, and hike. She serves as the Chair of the
Luminescence Display Materials Division of the Electrochemical Society.
Her advice to young women considering a scientific career is to
remember "the education process doesn't end after you earn your
degree. Always continue to learn new science, develop new skills,
and branch out into new areas. I got to where I am now by taking
on new challenges outside of familiar surroundings. Stand up for
yourself and be confident in your abilities."
Christine, Julia, Susan, and Lauren are all at the top of their
chosen fields of science. They have come to Sandia for personal
and professional reasons, and achieved what few women have. They
have made sacrifices along the way and difficult choices (as have
many professional women), but their determination, and their perseverance
have brought them a true measure of success and they have proven
their worth in a predominately male dominated world. We could not
ask for better role models for the young women who will follow in
these women's footsteps. For more information go the Sandia National
Laboratories Website at www.sandia.gov
Sabra Brown Steinsiek is a regular contributor
to New Mexico WOMAN and author of the prize-winning novel Timing
Is Everything. Her third novel will be released in November 2004.
She can be reached through her website, http://www.sabrasteinsiek.com.
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Women on the web
Web Resources on Women in Sports
by Geraldine Mosher
Check out these websites to learn about women in sports.
The Association for Women in Sports Media (www.awsmonline.org)
is an organization of women who work in the sports media. The organization
was established in 1987. AWSM offers an annual scholarship/internship
program for female college students who plan to pursue careers in
any sports communication field: writing, copyediting, public relations,
broadcasting, Internet, or photography. Winners in each category
receive a $1000 scholarship and an internship.
At the website of Women in Sports Careers (www.wiscfoundation.org)
you'll find the following categories: Internship of the Week, Hot
Jobs of the Week, Online Career Center, Resume Central, Sports Jobs
Database, and Women's Sports Wire. Choosing Online Career Center
takes you to Women Sports Jobs & Sports Career Counseling & Sports
Resume Writing Services. The page is very cluttered, but it has
a wealth of information, and is worth your time to investigate.
Clicking on Women's Sports Wire takes you to the "#1 Resource for
Women's Sports News and Information™" where you can check out College
Sports, High School Sports, and the Olympics.
An article by Del Jones (USA Today, 3/26/2002) states that sports
teach valuable lessons and that many successful women are also athletic.
Most female executives participated in organized sports when in
high school or college. It is perhaps the competitive nature of
sports that helps female executives in their careers. You can find
the article by going to www.usatoday.com
and searching (Author: Del Jones; Date Range 3/1/2002 to 3/31/2002).
The Women in Sports website (www.makeithappen.com/wis)
states "Women will find the courage and daring to follow their goals."
It lists 31 sports from Archery and Baseball to Water Sports and
Weight Lifting. Clicking on a sport takes you to a list of mainly
biographical sites. The size of the list depends on the sport. Bowling
listed only three; Golf listed over 500. For example the list under
Ice Skating has speed skater Bonnie Blair and figure skaters Dorothy
Hamill, Michelle Kwan, Tara Lipinski, and Kristi Yamaguchi.
At www.factmonster.com/ipka/A0771262.html
you'll also find a list of sports (24) but clicking on a sport provides
you with not only biographical info, but also the history of the
sport. For example, under Bowling you'll find "Women first bowled
in the 1880s, despite social disapproval. The first women's bowling
tournament took place in 1917 in St. Louis, Missouri. Jennie Kelleher
of Wisconsin was the first woman to bowl a perfect 300 game (1930)."
An excellent website to visit is the History of Women in Sports
Timeline (www.northnet.org/stlawrence
aauw/timeline.htm). You can click on any of 11 sections from
1899 through 2003. In the first section (to 1899) you'll find this
historical fact: "776 B.C. - The first Olympics are held in ancient
Greece. Women are excluded, so they compete every four years in
their won Games of Hera, to honor the Greek goddess who ruled over
women and the earth." In the last section (2003) you'll discover
this fact: "2003 - The U.S. team wins the world gymnastics championship."
Happy surfing!
Geraldine Mosher is a computer consultant and
trainer, as well as a freelance writer. Her business is Your Computer
Tutor, (505) 296-4042. She is also the owner of Top Quality Publications.
Check out her website at www.topqualitypublications.com.
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Whatever Happened to Service?
by Beth Donahue
Technology is wonderful. Computers, cell phones, pagers, palm pilots,
and so many gadgets help us lead a more organized and efficient
life. With all of this amazing technology, however, I think there
is something missing, and that is customer service.
Webster's dictionary defines a customer as "one who gives
his customer to a particular store or business house, a patron."
Service is described as a "performance of labor for the benefit
of another." My dictionary is dated 1947, so it is possible
that the definitions have changed considerably.
Several years ago I moved into new office space and needed two
shelves, three shelf brackets and a steel bar "thingy"
that holds files in my desk drawer. Rather than try to explain what
a "thingy" was, I took brackets and bar in hand for show
and tell at the hardware store. I handed the hardware man the bar
and said I only needed one piece exactly the same size as the one
I gave him. I told the shelf man that I wanted two shelves cut exactly
34 1/2 inches long, and three more brackets like the one I showed
him. I received three bars 1 inch shorter than my sample, two shelves
34-3/4 inches long, on bracket the correct size, and two shorter.
When I went to the "Customer Service Desk," Mr. Service
just smiled and called bar and shelf man back. Bar man was furious
and slammed his tape measure on the counter and looked at me like
he wanted to saw on my neck. Shelf man huffed away to re-cut the
shelving. I found the correct brackets.
While shopping for jewelry at a department store out of town, I
picked out my selection and wrote out a check. I had lots of identification,
including a photo on my driver's license. My license number couldn't
be entered into their computer after three sales people and a manager
tried. I was told they would not accept my check and would not sell
me the jewelry! I wanted an audiotape and went to one of those "we
carry everything" appliance stores. I looked for the tape and could
not find it. I approached three salesmen standing around talking
to one another and asked if they had any Delbert McClinton tapes.
They paged another salesperson that met me at the tape counter.
When I asked him where I could find Delbert he replied, "I am just
a salesman here, and people come in and move these tapes all around
and I don't know if we have it or not." Before I moved to Albuquerque
my apartment windows needed washing, but hanging out an eighth floor
window was not an option for me. I called a window cleaning company
that promised to come on Thursday. Two weeks later they still hadn't
arrived. My calls were not returned. I left messages at two other
window cleaning companies and never heard from them. I could only
assume they were too busy making money and did not need my business.
For that same apartment I bought carpeting. Some metal stripping
came up and needed a special tool to repair it. The metal was extremely
sharp and if stepped on could slice a foot. I called the carpet
company and they said they would be there on Friday. Two weeks later
I was still looking for them. It was finally repaired only after
repeated mean and threatening phone calls. I called an answering
service company and was told to call back later. I won't even tell
you about my phone voice mail system, my bank, and how I had to
order my business cards three times. I feel like I am on the wrong
track. I have worked weekends and holidays in my practice to accommodate
clients. I am available 24 hours a day to be more accessible. I
strive to return all calls within two hours. I spend time answering
questions because I want to educate people about hypnotherapy and
how it works. I send thank-you notes. I donate my services to charity.
I thought that if you gave good service, were the best in your profession,
and treated clients with dignity and respect, you would be successful.
My experiences lead me to a new definition of customer service."Develop
an attitude that the customer is interruption you, get rid of them
as soon as you can, and whatever you do, don't try to help because
they might come back, and never, ever answer your own phone. If
my definition is correct I can't imagine why so many companies are
trying to go out of business. If my definition is wrong, then I
definitely need an attitude adjustment. I like computer, sell phones,
pagers and all those other nifty timesaving devices, but let's not
forget who makes these high-technology purchases possible.
Beth Donahue, MH, is a clinical hypnotherapist
and counselor in private practice and can be reached at (505) 248-9700
or at NMWBethDonahue@aol.com
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From my Desk
Technology and Escape
by Jill Duval
Technology is here to stay and we realize more
each day that it is a critically important part of our businesses
and our lives. It wasn't that many years ago that I dragged my feet
on buying a fax machine for our office - now I wonder how we ever
got along without one.
Scientists at Sandia National Labs have provided incredible new
technology to the private sector as well as to government. They
also provide some terrific career opportunities to women, and have
great flexibility benefits for women with families.
Some days, though we just want to get away from it all. Sports,
travel, and social events can help us do that. While touring companies
that specialize in women are not a new idea, they certainly are
a rapidly growing industry. They provide an opportunity to connect
with other women whether they are friends, family, or strangers;
they also provide a safe ways to travel for women who would otherwise
have to travel alone. Many include numerous options: a real workout,
like hiking or kayaking , or more leisure activities like sightseeing,
shopping, with time to "stop and smell the roses."
This month we highlight two very important events in our community
that are coming up soon. You can have a terrific time and address
serious issues in the process.
The first, in September, is the SaVi Fair to benefit the Albuquerque
Rape Crisis Center. This stage show includes comedy, drama, and
music to showcase stories of some of the women affected, while also
raising money for the initiative.
The other, in November, honors nurses through awards and recognition,
at the same time, bringing attention to the frightening shortage
of nurses, which is increasing more rapidly each year. This is not
just in New Mexico; it is a national crisis. Think about who will
take care of us in our retirement; who will take care of generations
to come?
Of course, we cannot talk about events without mentioning our own
Young Women of Promise awards on October 2. This is a great opportunity
to recognize young women who have shown an extraordinary commitment
to the needs of the communities in which they live. Watch for more
information next month.
Lastly, although we do not usually reprint lengthy letters, this
month we have made an exception. I know practically nothing about
Janet Vigil; therefore I cannot judge her guilt or innocence. However,
I'm sure you will agree the case of Janet Vigil is hard to ignore
or dismiss. Having already served 15 years of a life sentence for
shooting an abusive husband, she will not even be eligible for parole
until 2017 - having then served 27 years. I am told she is not an
unusual case. Women typically serve far greater time for such a
crime than men do. One explanation I was given is that there is
less prison space available for men; therefore they are paroled
much earlier to make room for others. Where's the equity in that?
Something is very wrong with this picture. We hope that you will
think about this, and if you agree, take the time to notify the
appropriate officials of your concern.

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